Got all 3 tests done in the morning. Met one TWnese lady and had a talk. Marriage really needs that impetuous decision to be done. However, we cannot accurately predict marriage life, I guess it is the same with life in general. So she concluded that it is like gambling where you take your chances. Do not really like the idea because one can argue that everything could happen by chance and understood by their chances. If so, then why bother?
It seems like there will always be disputes between the married couple when there is no communication in between. Thus, there is no teamwork nor they both have any idea of what are the realistic expectations of the others. This matter cannot be solved by either one alone. Acceptance and trust out of love must be the key. Yet, abusing this will lead to ignorance, especially when there is no more communication. Hopefully it will be reminded by one another, before it is worsen or too late.
I have the same belief toward love and marriage as an interesting diary I saw today. It stated that you need to stick to your choice because it is what you choose to love. Once married to the chosen life partner, we all need to stick to it and work it out. But when we get picky or greedy, we could not get married. Still, we choose our choice. Maybe in order for us to get lucky, we have to have a big heart[:*], big mind[:#], big eyes[:o#] and big balls[X(].