對不起今天想用英文寫今天的心情日記:(好啦現在有心情寫中文了)
love is a peculiar thing. It put people in a state of mesmerization.
愛是一個很有趣又奇怪的東西.愛可以把每個人都像被催眠似的.
Love is like a bottle of hard liquor. when people are in love they can't see the flaw that
愛像是一瓶烈酒.喝了他的人就像醉了似的看不見另一半的缺點.
the other person has. The only thing they can see is how beautiful each other are.
他們只覺得對方真的是太美了.
However, after a while when they are sobered from the liquor, they become aware of all the flaws
可是過了一陣子,當大家酒醒的時候大家開始看到對方的缺點也沒辦法容忍.
that his or her partner presents. I guess this is why there is a "lovey dovey" phase and an
我覺得這也就是愛情的蜜月期還有蜜月期的結束時期.
awakening phase. By all mean i didn't mean that love is short term. It is not the absence of
我的意思不是說愛是短暫的.
love that is making us to notice how much flaw our partner has, but it is because the closer
我覺得不是愛不在所以才看到別人的缺點而是當對方越來越近的時候才發現火花越來越烈.
we get the more friction it creates. This world is not black and white, but a spectrum of
這個世界不是只有黑與白,在這兩色之間充滿了不同的顏色.
colors between two those color. Therefore, you cannot just say oh we are in love and now we are not.
這是為什麼我們沒有辦法閃電般的跳進一個愛情然後在馬上的跳出說不愛了.
There are too many factors involve in a relationship. I totally support one of the idea of
因為有太多現實的問題在影響一段戀愛.本人是很支持基督徒的觀點就是如果要跳進一段婚姻之前一定要有十足的信心自己會信守承諾.
Christian as in you must commit yourself into a marriage when you decide to jump in. I put a big
可是我不支持的卻是兩人"永遠"不可以離婚.
BUT after that because Christian believe you should not divorce ~~~ "NOT EVER". However, when
the relationship no longer makes each other happy to the point when you work for it for a long time,
我覺得如果兩個人真的在一起不開心,而且不管再多努力都沒辦法挽回那快樂.這時我覺得這段感情就不因該在下去了.
it should no longer continue. Life is short, why stay together and make each other miserable, instead
生命如此短又可貴,為什麼要讓自己和你的另一半如此的煎熬而不去找你未來的快樂呢?
of looking for our future happiness. Separation sometime yield some surprising results. Sometime
殊不知當分開後有時會有一些想不到的事發生.
people won't realize how they miss their other half until they have been taking a break. If
有時候人要離開後才會知道彼此的珍貴.
it doesn't work , then don't linger on the past. Happiness is control by us, so why not search for it.
如果離開後,完全沒有這樣的感覺的話那就不要再抓著過去.快樂是由我們掌控的,所以為何不把握機會去找尋幸福呢?
For all the people that had bad relationship, the only thing I will suggest is to "let it go".
我想給所有曾經有過不好的情史的人說就放下吧.
Only when you can leave your past behind you, then can you continue to search for what you desire
唯有把過去拋在腦後時,我們才能往前走.不要讓你的過去變成你的枷鎖讓你停在原地.
without much burden. I am not telling you to forget all about your past, but let you past become
我沒有要叫你把過去都忘了,卻要把你的過去當你的警惕.
one of your mistake that you can learn from. Please don't become too afraid of that mistake which
不要太怕你的過去讓你沒辦法去找你的快了.
impede your ability to find your next happiness. Don't make the old mistake again.
但也別犯同樣的錯.
Let us all find our happiness:). Good luck to all.
讓我們都去找我們的幸福.希望大家都加油而且也都幸福快樂.
Don't ever blame too much on yourself, because sometime this is just how life is unpredictable.
有時候不要太怪自己,因為有時候現實就是這樣子. |
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