First stage: Coexists Codependent. This is in love the time, the sweetheart when no matter where always does hope to be able greasily in the same place. Second stage: Instead relies on Counter dependent. When after the emotion is stable, at least can some side want the matter which has more than 1. own time interplanting to want to do, by now other side will feel is treated coldly. Third stage: Independent Independent. This is second stage continuing, request more independent time. Fourth stage: Paragenesis Interdependent. This stylish was together the road already to form, you he (she) already became you the most own person. You in mutually support together, found together belong to you life. You in cannot mutually hobble together, but can mutually grow.