年輕時候失戀可能會花上兩三個月甚至更久才能走出悲傷，隨著年紀漸長，一次又一次從期待到失落，經過無數次反思自我，長大成為一個更好的人，傷心期也越縮越短，好像看開了，不適合就放手，好像懂得為了不值得的人傷心有多浪費正向能量。
曾經覺得當初不夠好的自己不值得擁有那麼美好的愛情，但是從不向挫折低頭，淚水更是不能白流，於是把那些難過當成養分，不斷地進步、蛻變，讓每一滴淚水都顯得更為珍貴。也是心存傲氣吧，想要努力追趕上那些曾經覺得遙不可及的他們，想著當我有天變得更好且自信，他們該會想著後悔吧，甚至不出幾年當我回頭看，自己早已成他們遙不可望的人，那時候我已經不去在意他們後不後悔了，因為美好的生活讓我內心富足，過去的，早已雲淡風輕。
你是被選擇的，還是有能力選擇人的？當你有了做選擇的底氣，無論是哪一段感情的結束，你都能夠拿得起放得下，因為你知道自己夠好，你能夠給對方所有他想要的幸福，只要他是值得的，但是當他不夠認真甚至自私的只想到自己，你也可以爽快地轉身就走，因為他不配，他根本不知道自己失去的是什麼，因此，做一個自信且獨立的人，在事業上有自己的專業，有自己的一個家，開著還算不錯的車，一個人享受著人生中美好的風景，你清楚知道自己想要的是什麼，寧缺勿濫，既然緣分還沒到來，就繼續不斷地累績成長自己，幸福，它值得。
別為了不值得的人佔據思緒，他們真的不配，他若真的在意你，便捨不得讓你獨自傷心失落，他們或許曾經真心待你，他們也一定有著讓你深深著迷之處，否則你不會在猶豫是否放下的那一刻感到遲疑，覺得連呼吸都是困難，然而那些美好在他選擇不要的當下都成了過去。他做出他的選擇，而你也應該做出你的，好好專注在自己的人生旅途，當你提升了自己，下一個，真的會更好。好好的愛自己，你要相信自己是很優秀的，讓自己成為更好的人，至少，當下一個你所愛的人出現，在愛情裡面，你有更成熟的思緒，更能使人幸福的能力，你們也能過著更好的生活。
When young, getting over a breakup might take two to three months or even longer. As one grows older, experiencing disappointment after disappointment from high hopes, and reflecting countless times, one becomes a better person. The period of sadness shortens, as it becomes easier to let go when things don’t work out. It feels like we’ve come to understand that wasting positive energy on someone undeserving is futile.
There was a time when I thought my younger self, who wasn’t good enough, didn’t deserve such beautiful love. However, I never bowed to setbacks, and tears were never shed in vain. I used the sorrow as nourishment, constantly improving and transforming, making every tear precious. It was also out of pride, wanting to catch up to those who once seemed unreachable. I imagined that when I became better and more confident, they would regret it. In just a few years, when I looked back, I would have become someone they couldn’t hope to reach. By then, I wouldn’t care if they regretted it or not because a fulfilling life would make me feel complete, and the past would be a distant memory.
Are you the one being chosen, or the one with the ability to choose? When you have the confidence to make choices, no matter which relationship ends, you can let go easily because you know you are good enough. You can offer all the happiness someone desires if they are worth it. But if they are not serious or selfishly only think of themselves, you can walk away without hesitation because they don’t deserve you. They have no idea what they are losing. Therefore, be a confident and independent person, have your expertise in your career, own a home, drive a decent car, and enjoy the beautiful scenery of life. You know clearly what you want, and you’d rather wait than settle for less. Since fate hasn’t arrived yet, continue to grow and accumulate yourself. Happiness is worth it.
Don’t let unworthy people occupy your thoughts; they don’t deserve it. If he truly cared about you, he wouldn’t let you feel sad and lost alone. They might have once treated you sincerely and had qualities that deeply fascinated you; otherwise, you wouldn’t hesitate at the moment of letting go, feeling like even breathing is difficult. However, all those beautiful moments became the past when he chose not to want you. He made his choice, and you should make yours. Focus on your life journey. As you improve yourself, the next one will indeed be better. Love yourself well, believe that you are excellent, and become a better person. At least, when the next person you love appears, you will have a more mature mindset and a greater ability to make them happy, leading to a better life together. |
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