11/10/2011晴，默，月圓，醒
Appearently it is a day for singles in Asia already, where it shows 11/11/11. Single means one, when a person is not committed in any relationship with another. But what happens when there are two ones side by side, yet still stay single? It must be a very crowded world. A world of two singles that stay together is when people nowadays who likes to call it being friends regardless of the commitment or the purpose other than pleasure and selfishness. A world view which I do not really appreciate or agree~ when things go out of order.
I had a lost feeling as to what makes singles become couples without intentionally presenting themselves and doing acts of pleasing another rather than being just the way they are. Perhaps people would act just the way they are when they are singles but not considering the fact that they are together or force themselves to act in line with another just because they are together. Either way, one would lose themselves or another and later regret with reasons and excuses of why their difference should support termination of staying together.
Then people start to seek reasons for the right person to be in love with. People seek legitimate or good reasons such as assets, career, education, social status, family background, appearance, personality, hobby, goals and religion. People seek help and support from others and from trial and error. At the end, leaving many more others to feel hurt with unforgettable pain that may only be paralyzed with acts of self damage and disrespect, people were less able to love and more willing to remain single.
This is enough! Chaos needs to end and the freedom of love and happiness is not meant to be this way. It is important to love and stay in harmony. It is important to not let the badness of the world ruin the hope of true love. I believe that we are made to love and should not let the world blind and change us to be otherwise. A love is not only to love ourselves but to that significant other and the family and then possibly friends and the others within our ability. Getting used to be lonely is so we can know the value to love ourselves and the others.
Two is better than one, yet one is better than the two apart. Couples versus singles is two against one. Two wins. [:-] So let love be loved. What exactly do you like of the other and the other of you? Do not just let the feelings guide you out of grave loniness because feelings can change irradically, so do situations. I am who I am and perhaps I am trying to seek for someone who would just like and love me for who I am as I would do the same for her for the purpose to form a loving and wholesome marriage and family. Through what do we see evident?
Who knows if one is worthy among the many one gets to meet or know? Who can prove themselves to be worthy and suitable for love? There is only so much time, maybe too little time. Hence the chances are slim and the world is too big for the small world we are in. If all a woman want and need is to be fed and live their life, why bother with man. If all a man want and need is to succeed and have sex, why bother to love. Do not let the created world view ruin what is truly valuable and important to us in life. To be single or not to be. Good luck! [:P]I am hopeful. [:%%] 光棍戰亡紀念日同慶~ 願大家早日幸福! |
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